Kodi nthawi yogona ya mwana wanu ndi yotani?Kungoyang'ana, limenelo lingaoneke ngati funso losavuta komanso losavuta kumva.Koma kwa makolo ambiri obadwa kumene ndi makanda, kungakhalenso magwero ena a nkhaŵa ndi nkhaŵa.Mwina simungadziwe kuti mwana wanu ayenera kukhala ndi zaka zingati musanayambe kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yogona.Mutha kukhala ndi mafunso okhudza zomwe ziyenera kuphatikizidwa kapena momwe ziyenera kukhalira.Ndipo pamlingo wofunikira kwambiri, mwina mumadzifunsa kuti, "chomwe chimakhala chotani nthawi yogona ndipo chifukwa chiyani mwana wanga amafunikira imodzi?"
Onse ndi mafunso abwinobwino komanso omveka.Ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuti chidziwitso ndi malingaliro otsatirawa akuthandizani kukhala omasuka, ndikuthandiza mwana wanu kugona tulo tofa nato usiku uliwonse.
Choyamba, tiyeni tiyambe ndi chiyani, chifukwa chiyani, ndi liti.Nthawi yogona ndi zinthu zingapo zomwe inu ndi mwana wanu mumachita usiku uliwonse musanagone.Ndikofunika kuti chizolowezi chanu chikhale chodekha komanso chotsitsimula kwa mwana wanu wamng'ono, komanso kuti muzitsatira usiku uliwonse.Mwa kupanga chizoloŵezi chomwe chimakhala chosangalatsa komanso chodziwikiratu kwa mwana wanu, mudzapeza kuti ali ndi nthawi yosavuta kugona kumapeto kwake.Ndipo izi zitha kukhala zodabwitsa, koma mutha kuyamba kugwiritsa ntchito zanu mwana wanu akadali wamng'ono ngati miyezi 6 mpaka 8.
Ndiye, kodi nthawi yogona ya mwana wanu iyenera kukhala ndi chiyani?Pamapeto pake, ndi chinthu chokha chomwe mungasankhe.Koma nazi nkhani zina zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti mukhale omasuka: ndandanda ya nthawi yogona ya mwana wanu siyenera kufotokozedwa momveka bwino kuti apambane.M’chenicheni, mwinamwake mudzapeza kuti chizoloŵezi chosavuta chimagwira ntchito bwino kwa banja lanu.
Nazi malingaliro angapo okuthandizani kuti muyambe.
Zakale koma zabwino-zochita zopambana zomwe makolo akhala akugwiritsa ntchito kwa zaka zambiri:
Mwatsitsimutseni iye
Pofuna kuthetsa vuto lililonse komanso kuti mwana wanu amve bwino asanagone, mukhoza kumusambitsa nkhope ndi manja, kumusintha thewera, kupukuta m'kamwa mwake, ndi kuvala zovala zake zogona.
Amusambitse
Kusamba m'madzi ofunda ndi chinthu chotonthoza kwa makanda ambiri (akuluakulu, nawonso!) Zomwe zimawathandiza kuti asagone.
Werengani nkhani
Kuwerenga nkhani ndi njira yabwino yoti mwana wanu azikhala ndi nthawi yodekha, nthawi yabwino ndi inu asanagone (bonasi: zingathandize mwana wanu kuzindikira mawu atsopano).
Malingaliro ena ochepa omwe mungayesere:
Sewero limodzi lomaliza lalikulu
Ngati mupeza kuti mwana wanu ali ndi mphamvu zambiri panthawi yogona, zingakhale zopindulitsa kuyamba chizolowezi chanu ndi sewero lalikulu lomaliza.Chofunika kukumbukira ndikuchitsatira ndi ntchito yokhazika mtima pansi, monga kusamba kapena nkhani.
Imbani nyimbo yoyimba nyimbo
Mawu omwe mwana wanu amakonda kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi ndi mawu anu.Mukaigwiritsa ntchito kuyimba nyimbo yotonthoza mwana wanu, ikhoza kukhala chida champhamvu chothandizira kukhazika mtima pansi ndikumutonthoza asanagone.
Sewerani nyimbo zolimbikitsa
Monga kuyimba nyimbo zoyimbidwa, kusewera nyimbo zotsitsimula mwana wanu kungapangitse kusintha kwa Snoozeville kukhala kosavuta kwa iye.
Zochita zilizonse zomwe zimatha kukhala zabwino kwa inu ndi mwana wanu, kumapeto kwa tsiku, mudzapeza kuti njira yofunika kwambiri yopambana ndiyo kukhala yosasinthasintha.Mwa kutsatira chizoloŵezi chofanana cha nthawi yogona tsiku ndi tsiku, mwana wanu adzaphunzira kuvomereza kugona mosavuta, ngakhale m’malo osadziwika bwino.
Nthawi yotumiza: Mar-14-2022