Ni ubuhe buryo umwana wawe asinzira?Ku isura, ibyo birasa nkikibazo cyoroshye kandi cyoroshye.Ariko kubabyeyi benshi b'impinja n'impinja, birashobora kuba indi soko yo guhangayika no guhangayika.Ntushobora kumenya imyaka umwana wawe agomba kuba afite mbere yuko utangira gushyira mubikorwa gahunda yo kuryama.Urashobora kugira ibibazo bijyanye nibigomba kubigiramo uruhare cyangwa uburyo bigomba gusobanurwa.Kandi kurwego rwibanze, ushobora kwibaza uti: "mbega iki ni gahunda yo kuryama kandi kuki umwana wanjye akeneye umwe?"
Byose nibibazo bisanzwe kandi byemewe.Kandi twizera ko amakuru n'ibitekerezo bikurikira bizafasha gushyira ubwenge bwawe mu mutuzo, kandi bigafasha kohereza umwana wawe kuryama cyane kandi utuje buri joro.
Icyambere, reka duhere kubyo, kuki, nigihe.Gahunda yo kuryama ni urukurikirane rw'ibikorwa wowe n'umwana wawe ukora buri joro mbere yuko uburyama.Ni ngombwa ko gahunda yawe ituza kandi igahumuriza umwana wawe muto, kandi ko uhuza nayo buri joro.Mugukora gahunda ishimishije kandi iteganijwe kumwana wawe, uzasanga afite igihe cyoroshye cyo gusinzira birangiye.Kandi ibi birashobora kuza nkibitunguranye, ariko urashobora gutangira gushyira mubikorwa ibyawe mugihe kiddo yawe ikiri muto kumezi 6 kugeza 8.
None, gahunda yo kuryama yumwana wawe igomba kuba igizwe niki?Kurangiza, icyo nikintu gusa ushobora guhitamo.Ariko hano hari amakuru ashobora kugufasha korohereza ubwenge bwawe: gahunda yo kuryama k'umwana wawe ntabwo ikeneye gusobanurwa neza kugirango ubigereho.Mubyukuri, birashoboka ko uzasanga gahunda yoroshye ikora neza kumuryango wawe.
Hano hari ibitekerezo bike byagufasha gutangira.
Kera ariko ibyiza-ibikorwa byatsinze ababyeyi bakoresha mumyaka mirongo:
Freshen up up
Kugira ngo ufashe gukemura ikibazo icyo ari cyo cyose no gutuma umwana wawe yumva amerewe neza mbere yo kuryama, urashobora kumesa mu maso no mu biganza, ugahindura ikariso, uhanagura amenyo, hanyuma ukambara pajama.
Umuhe kwiyuhagira
Kwiyuhagira mumazi ashyushye nibintu byorohereza abana benshi (abakuze, nabo!) Bibafasha gusinzira.
Soma inkuru
Gusoma inkuru ninzira nziza kumwana wawe kumarana ituze, umwanya mwiza hamwe nawe mbere yo kuryama (bonus: birashobora gufasha umwana wawe kwiga kumenya amagambo mashya).
Ibindi bitekerezo bike byo kugerageza:
Umukino umwe wanyuma
Niba ubona ko kiddo yawe ifite imbaraga nyinshi zo kuryama mugihe cyo kuryama, birashobora kuba byiza gutangira gahunda yawe numukino umwe wanyuma.Ikintu cyingenzi ugomba kwibuka nukuyikurikirana hamwe nigikorwa cyo gutuza no gutuza, nko kwiyuhagira cyangwa inkuru.
Muririmbe
Ijwi ryumwana wawe ukunda kwisi yose nijwi ryawe.Iyo uyikoresheje kugirango uririmbe umuto wawe indirimbo ituje, irashobora kuba igikoresho gikomeye cyamufasha gutuza no kumuhumuriza mbere yo kuryama.
Kina umuziki utuje
Nkokuririmba lullaby, gucuranga umuziki utuza umwana wawe birashobora gutuma kwimukira i Snoozeville kumworohera.
Ibikorwa byose birangira bigukorera ibyiza wowe n'umwana wawe, umunsi urangiye, uzasanga inzira yingenzi yo gutsinda ari uguhoraho.Mugukomera kumurongo umwe wo kuryama umunsi kumunsi, umwana wawe muto aziga kwakira ibitotsi byoroshye, ndetse no mubitamenyerewe.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Werurwe-14-2022