Ithini into yokulala komntwana wakho?Xa uphandle, loo nto isenokubonakala ingumbuzo olula nongqalileyo.Kodwa kubazali abaninzi abasandul’ ukuzalwa neentsana, kusenokuba ngomnye umthombo woxinezeleko nenkxalabo.Usenokungazi ukuba umntwana wakho kufuneka abe neminyaka emingaphi ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuphumeza inkqubo yokulala.Usenokuba nemibuzo malunga nokuba kufuneka kubandakanyeke ntoni okanye kucace kangakanani na.Kwaye kwinqanaba elisisiseko, usenokuba uyazibuza, "yintoni i-heck yesiqhelo sokulala kwaye kutheni umntwana wam efuna enye?"
Yonke yimibuzo eqhelekileyo kwaye esebenzayo.Kwaye siyathemba ukuba olu lwazi lulandelayo kunye neengcinga ziya kunceda ukubeka ingqondo yakho, kwaye uncede uthumele umntwana wakho ukuba alale ubuthongo obunzulu kunye nokuphumla ubusuku ngabunye.
Okokuqala, makhe siqale ngento, ngoba, kwaye nini.Isiqhelo sokulala luluhlu lwemisebenzi oyenzayo kunye nosana lwakho rhoqo ebusuku ngaphambi kokuba ulale phantsi.Kubalulekile ukuba inkqubo yakho izolile kwaye iyamthuthuzela umntwana wakho omncinci, kwaye uyahambelana nayo yonke imihla.Ngokwenza inkqubo eyonwabisayo kwaye iqikeleleke kumntwana wakho, uya kufumanisa ukuba unexesha elilula kakhulu lokulala ekupheleni kwayo.Kwaye oku kunokumangalisa, kodwa unokuqalisa ukuphumeza eyakho xa umntwana wakho esemncinci njengeenyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-8.
Ngoko ke, ifanele ibe yintoni inkqubo yokulala yomntwana wakho?Ekugqibeleni, yinto kuphela onokuthi wenze isigqibo ngayo.Kodwa nazi iindaba ezinokukunceda wenze ingqondo yakho ikhululeke: inkqubo yokulala yosana lwakho ayifuni kucaciswa ukuze iphumelele.Enyanisweni, mhlawumbi uya kufumanisa ukuba inkqubo elula isebenza kakuhle kusapho lwakho.
Nazi iimbono ezimbalwa zokukunceda ukuba uqalise.
I-Oldies kodwa i-goodies-imisebenzi eyimpumelelo abazali baye basebenzisa amashumi eminyaka:
Mhlaziye
Ukunceda ukulungisa nakuphi na ukungahambi kakuhle kwaye wenze umntwana wakho azive elungile ngaphambi kokulala, unokuhlamba ubuso kunye nezandla zakhe, utshintshe i-diaper yakhe, usule iintsini zakhe, kwaye ufake iipjama zakhe.
Mhlambe
Ukuhlambela emanzini ashushu ngamava athomalalisayo kuninzi lweentsana (abadala, nabo!) Oku kubanceda ukuba bahambe baye kulala.
Funda ibali
Ukufunda ibali yindlela entle yokuba usana lwakho luchithe ixesha elizolileyo kunye nawe ngaphambi kokulala (ibhonasi: inokunceda umntwana wakho afunde ukuqonda amagama amatsha).
Ezinye iimbono ezimbalwa oza kuzama ngazo:
Umdlalo wokugqibela omkhulu
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho unamandla amaninzi e-pent-up ngexesha lokulala, kunokuba luncedo ukuqala inkqubo yakho ngomdlalo wokugqibela omkhulu.Into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyikhumbule kukuyilandela ngomsebenzi opholileyo nozolileyo, njengokuhlamba okanye ibali.
Cula ingoma
Isandi esithandwa ngumntwana wakho kwihlabathi liphela lilizwi lakho.Xa uyisebenzisela ukuculela umntwana wakho ingoma epholileyo, inokuba sisixhobo esinamandla sokumthuthuzela kunye nokumthuthuzela ngaphambi kokulala.
Dlala umculo opholileyo
Njengokucula i-lullaby, ukudlalela umntwana wakho umculo opholileyo kunokwenza inguqu iye eSnoozeville ibe lula kuye.
Nayiphi na imisebenzi ephela isebenza kakuhle kuwe nakumntwana wakho, ekupheleni kosuku, uya kufumanisa ukuba eyona ndlela ibalulekileyo yokuphumelela kukuhambelana.Ngokunamathela kwindlela enye yokulala imini nobusuku, umntwana wakho omncinci uya kufunda ukukwamkela ukulala ngokulula, nakwindawo engaqhelekanga.
Ixesha lokuposa: Mar-14-2022